Dutch guy it's a mk7,mk6 has timer and slave relays because there's no bcm.
they are standard 4 pin relays, you can get them from the scrap yard for cheap, Ford are stupid expensive
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A simpler way of installing the heated windows is use the control wire that comes off the bcm.
This wire is basically a logic ground
So.
Both relays low input coil is ignition live 10A fuse.
Both relays high power output through relay is 40A fused/4.00 cable through relay to screen left 1 and right 1 both ground cables go to A pillar 8mm ground bolt 1 each side foot well.
Now the brains.
Both relays low input coil logic ground goes to bcm connector c4 pin 6! But in order to latch the dash switch lamp you need to spur off this and add it to the dash switch cable which is switch c1 pin 5 and the wire colour is violet/orange just strip it and solder or twist the wire from there and to bcm and to relay. This latches the switch on the dash or does the yellow led when you press the switch to show it is on.
Have you done it yet?
Oh if you insist on doing it internally then you prize the fusebox apart by bit there's tabs all around and it is a ball ache, but you remove the back black piece first which shows you the main fusebox but then the inner parts come out in quadrants.