Thanks for the replies. The explanation of how a pre-engaged starter actually does it's thing has cleared it up in my mind
I refitted the original starter motor yesterday as I still had it as I'd fitted it to a 2.4 ldv and it had been working fine although a ton of metal filings fell out of it as I removed it but it's only been on there for a couple of weeks and after I gave it a bang on the floor and a shake it looked free of metal filings. Although it did seem better than the new starter it still missed engagement a few times when I tested it out. As the bendix was stiff to move be hand I'm going to whip it back off and clean it up before I go any further to rule that out. The trouble of course is that this starter is the one that chewed up the old solid flywheel so it to could also be iffy.
My Transit is a 51 plate 75ps fwd so it's one of the Transits that were recalled by Ford to have the DMF replaced with a solid flywheel so I'm wondering if these had a different starter to other transits as it seems to me that the starter's teeth aren't sitting deep enough down into the ring gear teeth. The reason for me thinking that is because at 1st I thought the opposite...the new starter was sat too low and the bendix was hitting the back face of the flywheel and needed lifting a bit. So I packed the side of the stater between the mounting bolts and flywheel with a 2mm spacer but this made the problem much worse, most times the starter would fail to engage or just spin freely without seeming to touch the ring gear at all. If it did manage to engage it would make a horrid sound and usually slip off and start spinning freely again.
I do think that the fit of both starters looks crap around the gearbox section of the starter nose but that might be how they all look? What I could do with is for somebody at Ford to run the reg, chassis and engine numbers to see what starter motor part numbers they produce. While they're at it they could cross those numbers to the part numbers of Mondeo starters to see if they are the same or not.
V8Dave mentioned that some starters sold are generic, the listing for the one I bought
https://www.ebay.co.uk/itm/FORD-TRANSIT ... 2749.l2649 doesn't mention the Mondeo but I guess that doesn't mean they don't list the same item again as a Mondeo starter. It's stopped raining so I'll pop out now and measure things up and report back here.