Hi
A little bit in late to this discussion but usefull i hope.
On this last 2018 june, the main relay R10 (if i well remember), failed (one " grey" in the engine box in the right black box)
The failure was: no lamps on the board, no starter, and no default on the obd tool, i let you imagine the time i spent for a relay at 8€.
One month later during a travel with this motorhome, i discovered the 12V fridge function didn't work resulting in: the beer was not cold...
After many many hours passed to find this failure, i let you guess.... the "grey'' relay in the cabin gloves box witch drives the motorhome control panel was out of order! No chance for sure.
Last week, with this cold weather coming, my son, using and starting the motorhome, called me and said it is very difficult to start; after having a look on the notice i discovered the engine-preheating is managed with a relais, thisone on the left of the R10 in the engine black box...it is a "grey"colour too...Now it starts perfectly...funny isn't? Three identical grey relays in less of 6 months out.
Long life to our MK7
Jp